I believe in prayer and in the power of prayer, but I seldom
really pray anymore – not the get alone in your closet kind of
praying. I’m quite half-hearted about it much of the time, and not entirely sure that I actually want God to take notice of me. Sometimes God
just seems too intentional for me and I need some personal space. If I’m looking around
for a closet it’s because I want to be alone, not because I want to get alone
with God.
I am completely convinced that God hears us when we pray, that God
moves in our prayers, that God draws us closer to His heart and to His will as
we pray, and honestly I kind of need a break.
I’m spent. I’ve waited for the Lord, but my strength has been sapped. I’ve run and I’m dead tired. I’ve walked and I’ve grown weary. I don’t really feel like
investing any more of myself into Anybody else’s will, perfect or not. When you’re
fatigued and petulant, it is difficult to pray with any integrity.
I try to teach my children to pray with integrity. Sometimes
I have to stop one of them in the middle of a prayer and ask them, Who are you praying to right now? Because it
kind of sounds like you’re praying to me
– and if you want something from me, you can just ask me directly. You don’t have to try to go over my head.
It’s almost instinctive to attempt to use prayer as an
instrument of manipulation – we want what we want and we’ll go straight to the
top if we have to, to get it. Dear God,
please – give me this, take that away, don’t touch a thing. And I don’t
think that there is anything misguided about making our requests known to God –
but lately I’ve been very aware that the things my heart desires are not things
with which I can, with any confidence, ask God to help me.
I don’t think this is a new thing – I think I am only now
just seeing it clearly. It came to me in a picture last night – how so often I have
come to God asking on my knees for things that have very little do to with what
interests the Divine heart. Only indirectly do they have anything to do with
feeding the hungry, edifying the disheartened, finding the lost, enriching the
poor. If I pray to be forgiven or to be able to forgive, it is only so that I
can feel a weight removed. If I pray for grace or for wisdom, it is only so
that life will be less frustrating for me.
At best, my prayers are childish requests for comfort,
security and pleasure. At worst, I am asking the Ruler of the universe to wield
His power to satisfy the lusts of my flesh and to bolster the boastful pride of
life. I am asking God to become my abettor. I don’t really want my heavenly Father to guard me
from temptation at all – I just want Jesus to keep me out of the ditch. I want the weight of my sins to fall on Him. I want
Him to take responsibility for the fallout of my choices. I want to grab what I
can get while I can get it, and I want Jesus to drive the getaway car.
C’mon, Jesus, just
cover for me. Don’t be so serious about everything. In the grand scheme of
things, is this really such a big deal? You know, if you give me this one
little thing I will do so much with it – you won’t even believe it. I know it's not really your plan but I’ll show
you, you won’t regret it. You’ll wish you had thought of it yourself. Please,
Jesus, just this one time. As a favour. Just get in the car. I promise, I’ll
let You drive.
If I take off the table all the things that I think I want
or need in my life, if I just leave those things in my pocket and don’t think to bring them to God,
if I only pray the way Jesus taught his disciples to pray and nothing more,
there is very little left – seven pure, uncomplicated sentences that speak
straight to the heart of God:
Your Father knows what
you need, before you ask Him. Pray, then, in this way: Our Father who art in
heaven, hallowed be Thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done on earth as it
is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we
also have forgiven our debtors. And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver
us from evil. For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.
Amen. ~Matthew 6:8-13